1. Like yourself. You've got to show this person how awesome you are, but first you need to know how awesome you are. Build up your self confidence if it's sorely lacking!
2.Make it clear you're available. Wearing a "single bracelet" will do the trick and they're stylish. He's not going to hit on you if he thinks you're taken (you can if ya want)
3.Get his attention. He can't fancy you if he doesn't know you exist. If you haven't caught his eye yet, then get him to notice you. Make sure you show a little interest and drop small hints that you like him<<important!
4.Crack a joke.
Having a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn't mean
you should be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your
path. Express your sense of humor in your own way.
5.Don't be afraid to be his friend. Being his friend
first gives you two great benefits: he gets to know you and you get to
know him, without the awkwardness of being in a dedicated relationship.
6.Do things together. If he loves rock-climbing, ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why he's so into it. Have an open mind. Find out what you have in common, and include him into your world.
7.Have patience.
These things take time. You can't force someone to like you, and trying
to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some
space and don't be obsessive
8.Finally, but importantly, keep in mind that you cannot control what other people think and do.
He may be the object of your interest, but that does not create any
obligation that you be an intimate part of his world. Turn the situation
around. If there were some random guy who took an interest in you, is
there anything that he could do to make you like him? Probably not
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